A Great Question

Should the self be strengthened or extinguished?

Annihilation, awakening from the illusion of self, or the realization of a fuller self: what becomes of the self at the end of the path.

Framing

Many mystical traditions speak of losing the self: the Sufi’s passing away in God, the Buddhist’s seeing through the illusion of a self, the Christian’s dying to self. Others speak of finding it: the Upaniṣadic self that is Brahman, the true self that Merton contrasted with the false. And some modern voices have argued that the language of self-loss has done harm, teaching passivity where the world needs strong and creative persons.

The question is partly about words. What one tradition calls the self, the grasping ego, another calls the false self; what one calls the true self, another denies exists at all. But it is also about substance: whether the end of the path is a personal relation with God, an impersonal awareness, or no one at all.

The perspectives below come from Islam, Buddhism and Vedānta, and from a modern poet-philosopher who challenged them.

Perspectives

Voices from several traditions, each in its own terms. They are set side by side to be compared, not ranked.

Islam, Muhammad Iqbal
Scholarship
The self is to be strengthened, not dissolved: through love, striving and creative action it becomes more truly itself, and even before God the perfect person keeps their selfhood.
Sources: The Secrets of the Self; The Reconstruction of Religious Thought in Islam
Sufism, Bāyazīd Bisṭāmī
Scholarship
The self must be shed entirely, like a snake’s skin, until nothing remains of the seeker but God; in that annihilation, the one who speaks is no longer the self.
Sources: Muslim Saints and Mystics
Sufism, Aḥmad Sirhindī
Scholarship
The self’s absorption in God is a stage, not the end; beyond it the mystic returns as a servant, a distinct creature before God, who sees God as God and creatures as creatures.
Sources: Shaykh Aḥmad Sirhindī
Buddhism, The Buddha
Scholarship
There is no self to strengthen or extinguish: what we call the self is a process of changing aggregates, and freedom comes from seeing that none of them is “mine”, “I” or “my self”.
Sources: The Dhammapada
Advaita Vedānta, Śaṅkara
Scholarship
The individual ego is extinguished, but the true Self is not: it is pure consciousness, identical with Brahman, and was never born or bound.
Sources: The Vedânta-Sûtras, with the Commentary by Sankarâkârya

Reflect

Which part of yourself would you be glad to lose, and which would you keep?

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Should the self be strengthened or extinguished?

Framing

Perspectives

Islam, Muhammad Iqbal

Sufism, Bāyazīd Bisṭāmī

Sufism, Aḥmad Sirhindī

Buddhism, The Buddha

Advaita Vedānta, Śaṅkara

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